SEXOUALIKH EPAFH: APOLUTH, AKATANIKHTH ANAGKH

• Poia einai ta aitia pou prokaloun thn anagkh gia sexoualikh epafh?

• Poia metra prepei oposdhpote na lamvanontai?

• Pws thn ermhneuei ka8e atomo?

• Se poies kathgoreies xwrizetai me vash poies kuriws episthmes?

[Exoun akoustei polles apopseis kata kairous gia thn sexoualikh epafh. Einai katastash, einai sunais8hma, einai parais8hsh, einai paixnidi ormonwn, einai parasursh, apodeiksh magkias, einai epirria kakou ktl. Omws, einai adiamfhsvhtito gegonos oti einai viologikh anagkh kai den einai aparaithto na ufistatai me to sunais8hma ths agaphs h' alla paromoia me auto, opws gia paradeigma o en8ousiasmos.]

• H anagkh gia sexoualikh epafh, gia erwtikh suneuresh, einai apotelesma kapoiwn aitiwn, sunais8hmatwn h' katastasewn, aitia ta opoia se sunergasia me ton xarakthra tou atomou ka8orizoun thn anagkh auth. Aksizei na shmeiw8ei oti endexetai na uparxei sunduasmos aitiwn pou na prokalesoun thn anagkh gia epafh erwtikou xarakthra, se diaforetikh entash kai va8mo. Aitia ta opoia einai dunaton na ka8odhgisoun ena atomo sthn anagkh gia sexoualikh suneuresh, einai ta ekshs:

1. Anagkh gia sarkikh epafh.
2. Oloklhrwsh sxeshs.
3. Biasmos.
4. Empeiria.
5. Diereunish.
6. Dokimh.
7. Apotelesma en8ousiasmou.
8. Viologikh anagkh-diaionhsh tou eidous.
9. Meso ekdikishs.
10. Tropos diafughs dusarestwn sunais8hmatwn.

• H sexoualikh epafh, opws alloste proanafer8hke, einai anagkh, kai apaitei ikanopoihsh. Omws, prepei pantote na lamvanontai up'opshn kapoia kritiria wste na apofeux8oun dusarestes aporroies apo auth thn ikanopoihsh. Kritiria ta opoia prepei oposdhpote na mhn paralhf8oun einai ta parakatw:

1. Lhpsh profulaktikwn metrwn.
2. Vevaiwsh gia pragmatika, alh8ina, ilikrinh sunais8hmata tou enos atomou pros to allo.
3. Proswpikh apofash, oxi parotrinsh kai parasursh apo trita atoma.

• To ka8e atomo, panta upo ton xarakthra tou, ta proswpika tou viwmata kai tis 8ewriseis tou, antilamvanetai kai ermhneuei me diaforetiko tropo thn ekfrash sexoualikhs anagkhs. Logw akrivws ths diaforetikothtas twn atomwn kai twn xarakthrwn tous, opws epeishs kai thn monadikothta twn proswpikwn tous viwmatwn kai antilhpsewn, dia8etoun se diaforetiko va8mo thn tash kai thn entash ths anagkhs auths, kai epishs tis antilhpseis kai tis 8ewriseis peri auths ths anagkhs, alla kai tis eidikes sun8hkes pou epikratoun mia orismenh xronikh periodo se enan orismeno gewgrafiko topo. Orismenes apo tis ermhneies oi opoies dinontai sthn sexoualikh epafh, einai oi parakatw:

1. Biologikh ormh.
2. Ikanopoihsh.
3. Kritirio pou sumballei sthn apodoxh h' aporripsh enos atomou ws suntrofiko.
4. Meso gia epiteuksh skopwn.
5. Proklhtikh sumperifora.
6. Tropos zwhs.
7. Anaparagwgh.
8. Skopos uparkshs atomwn.
9. Parafora.
10. Meso gia proklhsh, eksereunish, apokalupsh h' apodeiksh sunais8hmatwn kai twn duo atomwn ths sxeshs.

• O desmos erwtikou kai sarkikou tautoxrona xarakthra xwridetai se duo eidh poiothtwn:

1. Kalhs poiothtas sexoualikh epafh. Ena atomo gia to allo einai mia monadikh, agaphmenh proswpikothta, enw metaksu tous uparxei afosiwsh kai pisth.
2. Kakhs poiothtas sexoualikh epafh. Ena atomo antimetwpizei to allo ws ena tuxaio ergaleio gia thn proswpikh tou ikanopoihsh, th 8esh tou opoiou einai dunaton na parei opotedhpote opoiodhpote allo atomo.

Oi episthmes ths 8eologias, ws metafrash ths 8eikhs uparkshs me poikila sunais8hmata alla kuriotero thn agaph, me ilikrinh kai au8ormhto xarakthra alla kai h psuxologia ws pneumatikh kai sunais8hmatikh diereunhsh ths psuxosun8eshs diaxwrizoun se kathgories thn anagkh gia sexoualikh epafh.