EPIFULAKSEIS:ANASTOLES

• Poios einai o orismos tous?

• Ti epiptwseis exoun sto epifulaktiko atomo, sto suntrofiko tou alla kai sthn erwtikh sxesh?

• Se poia atoma sunantwntai suxnotera kai se poia spaniotera?

• Me poies me8odous eksaleifontai?

[H susxetish twn epifulaksewn-anastolwn me thn ntoph kai tous endoiasmous einai automath kai au8ormith. Omws, h ntoph kai oi endoiasmoi apoteloun epimerous klado ths dieurhmenhs ennoias twn epifulaksewn-anastolwn kai anoikoun sto sunolo tous. Einai sunais8hmata kai apotelesmata anafulaksias kuriws kai den einai emfhta ston atomiko xarakthra, alla dhmiourgountai kai einai se 8esh na metallax8oun h' akoma kai na apovlh8oun. Ephreazoun se megalo va8mo thn proodo ths sxeshs alla kai thn afethria kai to telos ths. Den apoteloun xarakthristiko apoluta twn 8ulikwn atomwn, exei parathri8ei oti einai suxna sunantwmeno fainomeno kai sta duo fula kai den eksartatai apokleisthka apo ton xarakthra tou atomou, opws gia paradeigma h ntroph, alla perissotero apo tis proswpikes tou ideologies, 8ewreies kai antilhpseis, opws epeishs kai apo ta proswpika tou viwmata.]

• Sto sunolo twn epifulaksewn-anastolwn, pern ths ntophs kai twn endoiasmwn, endassontai kai oi anhsuxeies, oi fovoi, oi apories, oi amfivoleies, oi amfitalanteuseis, oi eswterikes anazhthseis kai h amhxania kai alla. Genikotera, einai enas sunduasmos arnhtikwn sunais8hmatwn, tekmhriwmenwn h' mh. Einai kuriws o fovos pou sunanta to atomo kata thn sunapsh h' thn skepsh gia sunapsh sxeshs erwtikou xarakthra me ena allo atomo. O fovos autos, dikaiologimenos oloklhrwmenws, eparkws, arketws, elleipws h' anuparktws, afora thn prosfora kai ton rolo thn shmasia kai thn eu8unh tou atomou se mia erwtikh sxesh alla kuriws thn erwtikh tou sumperifora alla kai to ti prepei na praksei etsi wste na mhn prokalesei apogohteutika sunais8hmata h' dusarestes katastaseis alla kai anepanor8wtes aporroies sto suntrofiko tou atomo, logw aproseksias.

• Oi epifulakseis-anastoles exoun epiptwseis kai sto atomo pou tis dia8etei, kai sto suntofiko tou, kai sthn sxesh, asfalws.

1. Epiptwseis pros to epifulaktiko atomo: To atomo auto piezetai psuxologika, upokeitai se bviastikes kai veviasmenes eswterikes anazhthseis oi opoies endexetai na mhn apodwsoun panta 8etika kai or8a apotelesmata, epivarunetai, xanei thn ousia tou sunais8hmatos ths agaphs kai thn monadikothta mias sxeshs tupopoiontas thn, ka8usterei, parempodizei thn afethria kai thn ekseliksh ths, periorizetai, apomonwnetai, amfitalanteuetai.
2. Epiptwseis pros to suntofiko atomo: To suntrofiko atomo enos epifulaktikou atomou odhgeitai se lan8asmenes entupwseis kai xarakthrismous pros to allo, upokeitai se eswterikes anazhthseis, empodizetai, apo8arrunetai, apomakrunetai, dokimazetai, periorizetai.
3. Epiptwseis pros thn erwtikh sxesh: H erwtikh sxesh xarakthrizetai apo akinhsia, opis8oxwrish, stasimothta, upova8mish, periorismo.

• Panta upologizontas atoma ta opoia sunaproun erwtikes sxeseis anideiotelws, xwris ofelimistiko xarakthra h' anagkes mono gia sexoualikh ikanopoihsh, kai atoma ta opoia exoun upostei eswterikh anazhthsh, orizontas tous skopous tous se mia erwtikh sxesh, ka8orizontas thn erwtikh tous sumperifora kai orio8etontas to "teleio" tous, den uparxoun diakriseis ws pros ta atoma ta opoia endexetai na einai epirreph se megalutero va8mo apo alla. Omws, kuriws ta aisiodoksa atoma teinoun sto na emfanisoun taseis epifulaksewn dioti, parolh thn aisiodoksia pou ta xarakthrizei, epi8umoun sunh8ws na parousiasoun ton eauto tous san to "teleio" protupo kata thn gnwmh tous, agnowntas suneidhta to "teleio" pou exei hdh tuxon orio8eth8ei apo to allo atomo. Akomh, epi8umoun na sunapsoun apsegadiastes erwtikes sxeshs, gegonos pou fantazei api8ano. Telos, apofeugoun thn proklhsh dusarestwn katastasewn, kai alla. Anti8etws, ta apaisiodoksa atoma, logw epakrivws ths idiaiterhs euais8hsias tous kai tou pessimistikou tous xarakthra, niw8oun au8ormhta thn anagkh na afierw8oun swmatika kai psuxika sto suntrofiko tous atomo se mia erwtikh sxesh. Epipros8etws, lamvanoun up'opshn tous to "teleio" alla kai tis anagkes, epi8umeies kai stoxous tou exei orio8ethsei to suntrofiko tous atomo, frontizontai idietaira na mhn ta prosvalloun kai na ta sevastoun. Parola auta, ta parapanw dedomena den mporoun na 8ewrh8oun apoluta kai adiaseista, eksaitias ths uparkshs tou fainomenou ths Diaforetikothtas twn atomwn, se epidedo kuriws xarakthra.

• Oi me8odoi eksaleipshs twn epifulaksewn-anasfaleiwn einai ekseraitika aples kai idiaitera apotelesmatikes. Otan oi epifulakseis-anasfaleies apaloif8oun plhrws h' estw meroikws, h sxesh 8a einai se 8esh na eksisorropistei kai na aneptux8ei, alla kai ta atoma 8a dia8etoun enan amoivaia isxuro desmo erwtikou ufous. Pio analutika, oi vasikoteres me8odoi gia thn eksaleipsh twn epifulaksewn-anasfaleiwn einai oi ekshs:

1. Eswterikh-psuxologikh diereunish: To atomo anakaluptei ton xarakthra tou kai tis ideologies, 8ewreies kai antilhpseis pou upostirhzei, alla kai tous stoxous kai thn erwtikh tou sumperifora. Etsi, apokta autopepoi8esh kai to shmantikotero autognwsia, aksies pou prokeitai na stirhksoun tis apofaseis kai tis energeies tou.
2. Dialogos: To epifulaktiko atomo, mesw ths antallaghs apopsewn me to suntrofiko tou atomo, anakaluptei, anazhtei, sumperainei stoixeia. Auta ta stoixeia, safh kai epivevaiwmena, 8a einai se 8esh na to voh8isoun sto na ka8orisei thn erwtikh tou sumperifora analoga me thn epi8umia tou suntrofikou tou atomou, h aploustera, na diapistwsei, epivevaiwsei, anakalupsei tis epi8umeies tou suntrofikou tou atomou, se erwtiko epipedo, alla kai na apokthsei pepoi8hseis.

Xarh stis duo autes me8odous, to atomo einai se 8esh na katexei mia perissotero emperistatwmenh, tekmiriwmenh, or8h kai alh8h proswpikh apopsh gia to suntrofiko tou atomo, exwntas tautoxrona kseka8arisei kai tis proswpikes tou vlepseis, gegonota pou to ka8istoun pio apofasistiko, energhtiko kai dunamiko.